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| Safekeeping: Some True Stories from a Life | 
 enlarge | Author: Abigail Thomas
Publisher: Anchor
Category: Book
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Avg. Customer Rating:  19 reviews
Sales Rank: 48282
Media: Paperback
Edition: Reprint
Number Of Items: 1
Pages: 192
Shipping Weight (lbs): 0.8
Dimensions (in): 5.1 x 3.2 x 0.5
ISBN: 0385720556
Dewey Decimal Number: 920
EAN: 9780385720557
ASIN: 0385720556
Publication Date: April 17, 2001
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 a gift February 13, 2006
I am rebuying this book for myself...again. I keep giving my personal copies away to friends, family, houseguests. It is to be loved and shared. Safekeeping is a gift and a treasure.
Autobiographical Rubik's Cube December 17, 2004
3 out of 3 found this review helpful
A life told in pastiche, favoring small moments of telling quietness over the Big Events that feature in most memoirs. Divorces and births are passed over with little comment, but scenes from marriages and parenthood and the friendships that persist after marriage ends are beautifully rendered.
Thomas shifts point of view, sometimes telling a piece in first person, sometimes in third. Her sister makes occasional appearances in the book, "correcting" Thomas and questioning her motives. The book jumps back and forth in time, and part of the pleasure of reading it is encountering the life in the order that makes most sense to its author, and piecing together the chronology as you go along.
Very short sections, nicely managed. Almost a collection of prose poems.
wonderful June 25, 2002
2 out of 3 found this review helpful
This is my favorite book of all-time. Poetic, direct, heartbreaking. Wonderful.
Genuine November 25, 2000
3 out of 4 found this review helpful
This book is a treasure, one that you can't put down. It is a quick read but one that is definitely worthwhile. Although the book has many moments of sorrow, it also has many moments of triumph and genuine feeling. It will touch your heart.
OLDER, WISER, AND A TREASURE FOR ALL October 4, 2000
10 out of 11 found this review helpful
Reading Safekeeping: Some True Stories From A Life, a memoir by Abigail Thomas, is much like being in conversation with a trusted friend - defenses aren't necessary, smiles abound, tears flow unashamedly.
The author, who established her literary mettle with three previous novels, most memorable for me, Herb's Pajamas (1998), writes close to the bone and straight from the heart as she reveals her life in a series of affecting vignettes. All of these engagingly candid sketches are short, some as brief as a paragraph. Yet, brevity adds to their luster.
Ms. Thomas's life was partially formed by the 1950's, a time when love was defined to her adolescent mind by parents who still closed their eyes when they kissed, and she thought 'We might all live happily ever after if only I could find the right man.' But she is no longer the girl who sang 'Hey Jude' everywhere as 'her prayer, her manifesto,' she is now thrice wed, the mother of four and grandmother of six.
Recalling her marriage at the age of eighteen Ms. Thomas notes, 'We were children, not meant to be married, but we did make beautiful babies.' A decade later, with three youngsters in tow, she ran away from her husband to live in the basement of her parents' New York City home.
It was some two years before she married again, this time to a bachelor of forty-six, a man who 'thought it gave a woman the upper hand if you told her you loved her.' He, the man with whom she spent thirty years and had one child, is at the center of much of Ms. Thomas's memoir as she delicately traces the arc of their relationship from love to rancor and back to love again. There was acrimony before and after their divorce. She does not remember when they became friends again, but writes of him, 'Now that nothing was expected of you, you were free to give.' She, too, gave as she cared for him during his final illness. To this day, it seems, she misses him, saying, 'It is so hard to comprehend gone.'
Safekeeping is studded with conversations between Ms. Thomas and her sister. At times the author is goaded into being more precise in her recollections. At other times, the sisters laugh, remembering their mother who 'didn't exactly spend her days in a red-checked apron plying us with little goodies,' but made sure they knew 'where Ovid was banished.' A poignant sister-to-sister encounter is a telephone conversation which ends in an argument. They both hang up, then immediately try to call each other back. 'Once upon a time anger was the final destination, but not now,' Ms. Thomas observes. 'Because we are older now, and we know what we want.'
At one point, following the break-up of her second marriage, Ms. Thomas despaired of being able to find a job because she didn't know how to do anything but fall in love. Not so. Most definitely not so. She knows what is treasure and what is dross; what to keep and what to discard. Today she teaches writing at New York City's New School. With Safekeeping, she teaches life.
- Gail Cooke
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